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We lost our daughter Ani to Lupus a few days after her 12th birthday. The virtual world of the Internet helps to keep her moments alive and share them with others. The first posting was on August 2005 To read all past postings from 2005 onward, please go to https://toani.blogspot.com/ and you will see all the previous entries listed. Click on the one you wish to read.

Saturday, July 18, 2026

The Wound is the Place Where the Light Enters You (Rumi)

 

 


 

A friend of mine from Bari, Italy, where I spent time in my youth, sent me poetry lines. They are by Sabatore Quasimmodo who received the 1959 Nobel Prize in Literature:

Ognuno sta solo sul cuor della terra
trafitto da un raggio di sole:
ed è subito sera.

 

(Everyone stands alone at the heart of the earth,
pierced by a ray of sunshine;
and suddenly it is evening.)

 

And I recalled lines from Leonard Cohen, a poet-singer you never had time to know:

 Children show scars like medals. Lovers use them as secrets to reveal. A scar is what happens when the word is made flesh”

You loved life, but did not have the opportunity to become a lover. Your last words were “I can deal with it” but you were already worried about the scar a passage leaves.

And your words made the flesh a word.

A memory.

And remembrance.

 

July 18, 2026

© Vahé A. Kazandjian, 2026

 

I kept this photo on my desk for now 21 years. You were 4 years old and totally excited that a camera can go by itself on a tripod. Pita, she just laid down there happy to be with us. She was 4 years old too, and we used to call you, your twin brother Greg and Pita our triplets.